MOTHER SHOULD STAY AT HOME
Assalamualaikum.w.w
Honorable Judges
Respectable Audiences
First of all, I would like to thank Allah who had given us chance and time, so we can attend this nice competition. Then, Salawat and Salam, let’s send to our prophet, the great Muhammad, peace be upon Him. Right. In this occasion I would like to deliver my speech about mother.
Mother holds an important role in a family. The role of mother at first life of baby makes mother to be important than father in their children life. But, nowadays there are so many mothers go out. They work in many labels of profession. The development of freedom gives mother a chance to develop and express her in the world they work every time, everyday, and almost there is no time for children or family anymore. They forgot their role as a mother and a wife
Now, I want to state that mother as an important person in family should stay at home. They should keep the children and take care of family life. Like Nancy Reagan said to be a mother and to be a wife is a noble job. Mother’s presence in the home during the days means everything to the child’s feeling of well being and security. It is not false, isn’t it?
There are some reason why do mother work out of home. Firstly, they work to get extra money. Most of mother’s work is for money. They want to consume luxurious things that they can not get from their husband. Secondly, Boring. Actually, mother decides to have a job is because of boring and busy with home making task everyday. Then, they are looking for wonderful experience outside of home. And the last, mother wants to lighten her husband economic problem. But in fact, it is the starting points of another problem in the family.
So, the trend of mother to be out of her home is a social problem and marriage problem. It can cause divorce, violence, drug abuse, rebellion against social customs and moral standard. The children fail to develop properly, developed into mental cases, or fail to find purposes or happiness from life. They turn from the ways the parents and seek new ways. Ironically, those problems occur because of working mother.
Commonly, in the family where father and mother are working, it is easy to appear a problem. It is caused by which is to be priority, father or mother’s job, who will handle the home task, who will take care of children and problem of arrangement of time to family and job. So, Mother should be returned to the home. The standard of living is a fictions thing. It is a mother primordial function to stay home and raise children. She should not join the hunt with man. If you do not leave families of decent kids behind, the mother have left nothing. Basic to the solution of adolelescent problems of any generation is an intact home.
Even, mother can be a successful carrier woman. It is an important thing to not forget their god’s will. As a couple for husband and mother for their children. What the meaning of successful is if the family is broken. The husband and the children hurt.
I think that is all. Thank you for your attention Assalamualaikum wr.wb
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